Discerning Parenting

094 - My Three-Year-Old Can't Read: Is This Normal or Should I Be Worried? with Teacher Tasha Mendoza

Victoria Ang-Nolasco, MD Episode 94

In this episode, Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco and Teacher Tasha Mendoza tackle a common concern for parents: What if my child isn’t reading by age three? (Or age four or five?) 

They discuss the undue pressure placed on parents, why early reading isn’t always developmentally appropriate, and how to focus on holistic growth instead.

Key takeaways:

  • Reading milestones typically develop around ages 5–7.
  • Language, play and social-emotional development in early childhood are more critical than academic skills.
  • Forcing reading too early can lead to frustration and aversion to learning.
  • Advocate for developmentally appropriate practices in schools.

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