Discerning Parenting

092 - Preschooler Refuses Reading and Writing Tasks? Do This First - with Teacher Tasha Mendoza

Victoria Ang-Nolasco, MD Episode 92

In this episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, Dr. Victoria and Teacher Tasha Mendoza address a common worry for parents: “What if my preschooler doesn’t like reading or writing?” They explore why children resist school tasks, how developmental milestones play a role, and why early academic pressure can harm long-term learning attitudes.

Key Topics:

  • Understanding why your preschooler resists reading and writing.
  • The importance of observing your child’s behavior and stress levels.
  • Why forcing worksheets too early can backfire.
  • Balancing school expectations with age-appropriate learning.
  • Why parent-child connection matters more than academics at this stage.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Observe your child: Look for stress signals and adjust expectations.
  2. Check developmental milestones: Preschoolers need play, movement, and exploration—not worksheets.
  3. Avoid early pressure: It can create a lifelong aversion to learning.
  4. Connection first: Your relationship with your child is the foundation for future learning.

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